"Dear Savi, I have been born again for 4 years now. God has blessed me with a wonderful husband who loves me so much and a daughter, 15 years old, from a another relationship. We are all born again Christians. My husband and I have been praying for a child for 7 years. My husband is living in his native country, 1 hour's fly. We visit each other once in a year because of our work. This is not what we wanted. Our plan was to live together in one house as husband and wife but the circumstances wouldn't allow that. My husbands language is Portuguese and in my country we speak English. I can speak Portuguese (not fluent), but he cannot speak English. This makes it difficult to find a job in another's country and we decided to work and organise our live, buy a house in my husband's country and be together. My husband supposed to be the bread winner for his family as his father left his mother with 5 children when my husband was only 7 years old. Thus made his mother to struggle a lot and only now that God has blessed my husband with a better job, they are building a house. While we were trying to conceive, my husband made a child, 5 years now, with another woman in his country. I was hurt and it took me a year and a half to forgive him but Jesus gave me peace and I have accepted the boy, although he stays with his mother. People are always asking why are we not making a child. His mother and sister also mentioned that our blood does not fit for each other. My husband always assures me that he loves me a lot and will never change me for another woman but I want to give my husband a child and for my daughter a sister or brother. I feel rejected at times but I also find comfort in knowing that God is with me and He surely will bless us with a child. Please Savi, stand in prayers with us for God to cause us to conceive. I believe that God will not allow the devil to put us to shame. We want give testimony and I want God to show those who do not believe that everything is possible with God, that He is God and nothing is too hard for Him. I trust in Him and I draw strength to His promises as He said He will bless the fruit of my womb and I shall not be barren. I bless you in the Name of Jesus Christ. - SS
(Question from Nigeria)

"You are not barren. You already have a child so that validates that you are able to have children. It is very hard to conceive when you live in a separate country from your husband and see him once a year. You need to be with him and live in the same house as him. If you haven't started to make plans to do that, start now. If you need to learn his language in order to get work, do so. You must live with him to have a successful marriage. The Bible says in Genesis 2:24, Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Ask God to open doors to make this possible. Only He can open doors that man cannot. Will keep you in prayer." - Savi.