"My husband who is a Godly Christian man has hurt me so much by his harsh words that it has broken my heart and it has affected our marriage. I do not believe in divorce & I know that God hates divorce, so that is the last thing I want to happen. I try to tell him how much he hurts me, but he keeps doing it. I don't know how someone who is suppose to love you can say things that cut you so deep. And he doesn't understand why I don't want to be intimate with him because of how much he hurts me. What can I do to get him to see what he is doing is affecting our marriage deeply? C

"I commend you for not wanting a divorce. You say your husband is a Godly Christian man... You should not deny him intimacy, 1 Corinthians 7:5 clearly states you should not deprive one another so Satan does not have any room to work in your marriage. Humble yourself and whenever he says something to hurt you deeply, remember Jesus on the cross and the nails in his hands. How deep was His pain? Fast and pray for your husband and love him when he is unlovable. Call on Jesus and watch the enemy of your soul run from you marriage. The Bible says in James 4:10, Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up." - Savi."